India has a long tradition of arrange marriages and so it’s going on till today.
The social structure & culture in India is such that when people think about a wedding it’s always an arrange marriage in mind. Love marriage for Indians is still a boom like the time of Soni- mahiwal. Indians never supported love marriages whole heartedly.
For Indians it’s really tough to accept a love marriage when its inter caste marriage (leave apart the religion- that is a big issue for them). Although education & media has played a very vital role in changing, the minds of Indian about their tradition of arrange marriages. But still deep down in their mind there is always a hand against love marriages.
Today, almost 50 % of people still very strongly believe in arrange marriages. And the rest 30% out of 50% supports love marriages just for their children happiness.
So very few of 20% Indians support love marriages happily.
But I still have some questions in my mind?
How can you decide about spending your life with someone who is a stranger?
How can one judge a person in just 5- 10 minutes of time?
I personally feel that when you have decided to spend life together it is important for you to know the person. There should be mental compatibility and understanding among both of you.
How can one get married to a person just talking for 5 minutes?
In case of arranged marriages the relation starts when the girl and the boy get to know each other in a meeting before the final commitment. Before deciding anything the parents do up with their number of meetings and important family checks.
All those formal meetings and hell lot of show-ups; what does all this matter when things are certainly different in future.
I personally believe, if you know somebody before marriage it allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other's needs and desires.
People feel one is more secured in arrange marriages, as parents decide everything and confirms everything before the marriage. How can one be so sure that things seen & checked are true? Many of times things changes after marriage.
What is the guarantee of a arrange marriage to be more successful than love marriage?
It hurts and it hurts terribly when expectations are belied, when emotions get trampled and you feel cheated and ignored.
Then I should certainly say it’s all self affirmation that makes us think this way.
Why can’t we Indian make arrange marriage as easy to understand as a love marriage? Why cant two people spend some time together to understand each other well before their marriage decision?
How can a person think of spending life with a stranger?
It’s hard to understand this concept. People have a belief get married love will come following it. That’s a forceful love. One has to adjust even if both of your opinion doesn’t match with each other.
In my opinion in arrange marriages, if we can’t give time to understand each other than hats off to those people who go for love marriages. At least they will never have a grudge in their life, that they married a stranger. They married a person who they understand and know well.
They took time to come to a decision called marriage.
Marriage is not a joke it’s a life time commitment. It’s a matter of two person’s life, which can be beautified or made hell just with a wrong decision.
This is my take what about you...Are you ready to marry to a stranger?
Friday, June 20, 2008
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
The technological innovation that I wish..
The technological innovation that I wish..
When thoughts become to be our wishes each one of us have enormous number of wishes, gradually growing day by day. But what if it is a technical innovation wish..
Technology has reached heights but what I desire is a technical innovation wish in my life.
So, let me tell you my only innovating wish..
Wishes are many but a technically innovating wish is something special. People from Microsoft always strive to reach to the higher versions in Linux there dreams & desire is always to reach there technicalities on new heights. Unlike Internet Explorer has reached to higher version of Internet Explorer 7.0. Technology always welcomes you with something new.
So today you need to write your technological innovation wish..
Whether it’s of a robot handling all the home affairs or an automatic button to stop the world and let me play my part on my own too many thoughts to be thought and there goes your dream
Life is to make your dream come true and today when I am given a chance to express a technological innovation. I would say there should be an automatic button which when required should be switched on and makes the time stable.
Time runs faster than we can imagine. I need a stop on the time whenever I feel like. I need a button which stops the time whenever I feel like. There are times when we want to stop the time & enjoy the moment. There are times when we fear the future results and think why time can’t stop.
I want an innovation which makes the time move on when I want to. At least, I will be able to live the moments I always crave for.
Life shows us varied faces and few of them are those which we always strive for. So my technical desire is an automatic button which stops the time when I say and starts as I wish. Although I can very well understand that it would make life really boring (monotonous) when time would stop, but it’s always good to enjoy those moments more which makes you smile.
My wish is time what’s yours??
When thoughts become to be our wishes each one of us have enormous number of wishes, gradually growing day by day. But what if it is a technical innovation wish..
Technology has reached heights but what I desire is a technical innovation wish in my life.
So, let me tell you my only innovating wish..
Wishes are many but a technically innovating wish is something special. People from Microsoft always strive to reach to the higher versions in Linux there dreams & desire is always to reach there technicalities on new heights. Unlike Internet Explorer has reached to higher version of Internet Explorer 7.0. Technology always welcomes you with something new.
So today you need to write your technological innovation wish..
Whether it’s of a robot handling all the home affairs or an automatic button to stop the world and let me play my part on my own too many thoughts to be thought and there goes your dream
Life is to make your dream come true and today when I am given a chance to express a technological innovation. I would say there should be an automatic button which when required should be switched on and makes the time stable.
Time runs faster than we can imagine. I need a stop on the time whenever I feel like. I need a button which stops the time whenever I feel like. There are times when we want to stop the time & enjoy the moment. There are times when we fear the future results and think why time can’t stop.
I want an innovation which makes the time move on when I want to. At least, I will be able to live the moments I always crave for.
Life shows us varied faces and few of them are those which we always strive for. So my technical desire is an automatic button which stops the time when I say and starts as I wish. Although I can very well understand that it would make life really boring (monotonous) when time would stop, but it’s always good to enjoy those moments more which makes you smile.
My wish is time what’s yours??
Monday, June 09, 2008
Our Fake Business That Risks Your Future
We all are very well aware of the increasing unemployment in our country.
With a rise in BPO's and KPO's in India lot of youth after class 12 or say graduation are diverging more towards pursuing call centre jobs just to earn money.
Lucrative Packages, incentives, timely bonus makes them go crazy for pursuing call centre jobs, rather than pursuing their career in some professional field. There starts the new story of jobs and its attraction to the students who are just higher secondary passed and how are they used for business!!!
Yes these students who get attracted towards the lucrative packages in the industry are caught in hands of all those consultants who are using them as a part of their business.
Well we might not think in our imagination that what’s going on..
To let their consultancy business run well these consultancies are providing fake certificates to students. Providing duplicate proofs that students are graduates and experienced.
Its just not fake certificates they provide to theses students more or less they are playing with there future. For a fresher who is undergraduate a sum of Rs. 10,000/- month is a huge amount where there monthly pocket money from there parents does not exceed more than Rs. 2,000/- per month.
Almost around 70% of employees (students) working in BPO’s are working with such fake certificates provided by consultancies. The question that arises here is what right do they have to play with the student’s future?
Rapid transition in job industry through the commencement of BPO’s had made a lot of change. Gradually students or professionals are more or less found in BPO’s pursuing jobs. Some of them are innocent who are there to earn there livelihood and many among them are those from theses consultancies just to pursue a job for 2 months or 3 months in lieu to earn good money.
The lucrative packages and incentives makes them earn more and attracted towards such jobs; but what is the professional stand these jobs are providing?
Too many questions have arisen but still there is no answer…
Where is this world leading towards …A vast destruction and full of corruption..With a crave for money people have got to be very selfish day by day.
What everyone sees from eyes is just money and different ways to earn that whether by getting a job by fake certificates or providing fake certificates to run there business well.
With a rise in BPO's and KPO's in India lot of youth after class 12 or say graduation are diverging more towards pursuing call centre jobs just to earn money.
Lucrative Packages, incentives, timely bonus makes them go crazy for pursuing call centre jobs, rather than pursuing their career in some professional field. There starts the new story of jobs and its attraction to the students who are just higher secondary passed and how are they used for business!!!
Yes these students who get attracted towards the lucrative packages in the industry are caught in hands of all those consultants who are using them as a part of their business.
Well we might not think in our imagination that what’s going on..
To let their consultancy business run well these consultancies are providing fake certificates to students. Providing duplicate proofs that students are graduates and experienced.
Its just not fake certificates they provide to theses students more or less they are playing with there future. For a fresher who is undergraduate a sum of Rs. 10,000/- month is a huge amount where there monthly pocket money from there parents does not exceed more than Rs. 2,000/- per month.
Almost around 70% of employees (students) working in BPO’s are working with such fake certificates provided by consultancies. The question that arises here is what right do they have to play with the student’s future?
Rapid transition in job industry through the commencement of BPO’s had made a lot of change. Gradually students or professionals are more or less found in BPO’s pursuing jobs. Some of them are innocent who are there to earn there livelihood and many among them are those from theses consultancies just to pursue a job for 2 months or 3 months in lieu to earn good money.
The lucrative packages and incentives makes them earn more and attracted towards such jobs; but what is the professional stand these jobs are providing?
Too many questions have arisen but still there is no answer…
Where is this world leading towards …A vast destruction and full of corruption..With a crave for money people have got to be very selfish day by day.
What everyone sees from eyes is just money and different ways to earn that whether by getting a job by fake certificates or providing fake certificates to run there business well.
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