Listen First before ASSUMING
Being judged on every pretext, will never be liked by anyone. But being a human we cannot stop our perceptions. We judge the people by their action, attitude, behavior, looks etc. I never thought people will observe me very minutely but the fact is people start creating a perception in their mind. The word perception always begins with the minutest of thoughts like the other person is always busy on phone probably person is going around with someone, the person is quiet he/she is throwing attitude, person hangs out more with opposite gender people that person isn’t good. Etc.
There are lot many things which happen around us and we create an impression about it based on our judgments. Each individual is aware of what to do when and how. The fact is that life is different at different stages, when you are in college you tend to react more like a youngster who is not bothered about anything. While you start working your life changes, there are lots of changes that happen within you. But people around you don’t stop assuming about you and the changes that happen within you.
Each individual has a different personality at different places or similar personality at different places. It’s all about that attitude and its reflection that we get about the other person.
Perception is nothing but the process of attaining awareness or understanding of the environment by organizing and interpreting sensory information.
This insight about anyone can cause lot of problems and things fall bad.
Without knowing the actual facts, adjudicating is BAD.
U may say PERCEPTION… PERCEPTION….PERCEPTION….Why the hell is it happening?
Understand the environment, sense what is happening and clear your facts. Don’t just ASSUME all the time.
