Do you want to spend life with a stranger?

India has a long tradition of arrange marriages and so it’s going on till today.

The social structure & culture in India is such that when people think about a wedding it’s always an arrange marriage in mind. Love marriage for Indians is still a boom like the time of Soni- mahiwal. Indians never supported love marriages whole heartedly.

For Indians it’s really tough to accept a love marriage when its inter caste marriage (leave apart the religion- that is a big issue for them). Although education & media has played a very vital role in changing, the minds of Indian about their tradition of arrange marriages. But still deep down in their mind there is always a hand against love marriages.

Today, almost 50 % of people still very strongly believe in arrange marriages. And the rest 30% out of 50% supports love marriages just for their children happiness.

So very few of 20% Indians support love marriages happily.

But I still have some questions in my mind?

How can you decide about spending your life with someone who is a stranger?

How can one judge a person in just 5- 10 minutes of time?

I personally feel that when you have decided to spend life together it is important for you to know the person. There should be mental compatibility and understanding among both of you.

How can one get married to a person just talking for 5 minutes?

In case of arranged marriages the relation starts when the girl and the boy get to know each other in a meeting before the final commitment. Before deciding anything the parents do up with their number of meetings and important family checks.

All those formal meetings and hell lot of show-ups; what does all this matter when things are certainly different in future.

I personally believe, if you know somebody before marriage it allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other's needs and desires.

People feel one is more secured in arrange marriages, as parents decide everything and confirms everything before the marriage. How can one be so sure that things seen & checked are true? Many of times things changes after marriage.

What is the guarantee of a arrange marriage to be more successful than love marriage?

It hurts and it hurts terribly when expectations are belied, when emotions get trampled and you feel cheated and ignored.

Then I should certainly say it’s all self affirmation that makes us think this way.

Why can’t we Indian make arrange marriage as easy to understand as a love marriage? Why cant two people spend some time together to understand each other well before their marriage decision?
How can a person think of spending life with a stranger?

It’s hard to understand this concept. People have a belief get married love will come following it. That’s a forceful love. One has to adjust even if both of your opinion doesn’t match with each other.

In my opinion in arrange marriages, if we can’t give time to understand each other than hats off to those people who go for love marriages. At least they will never have a grudge in their life, that they married a stranger. They married a person who they understand and know well.

They took time to come to a decision called marriage.

Marriage is not a joke it’s a life time commitment. It’s a matter of two person’s life, which can be beautified or made hell just with a wrong decision.

This is my take what about you...Are you ready to marry to a stranger?

The technological innovation that I wish..

The technological innovation that I wish..

When thoughts become to be our wishes each one of us have enormous number of wishes, gradually growing day by day. But what if it is a technical innovation wish..

Technology has reached heights but what I desire is a technical innovation wish in my life.
So, let me tell you my only innovating wish..

Wishes are many but a technically innovating wish is something special. People from Microsoft always strive to reach to the higher versions in Linux there dreams & desire is always to reach there technicalities on new heights. Unlike Internet Explorer has reached to higher version of Internet Explorer 7.0. Technology always welcomes you with something new.

So today you need to write your technological innovation wish..
Whether it’s of a robot handling all the home affairs or an automatic button to stop the world and let me play my part on my own too many thoughts to be thought and there goes your dream

Life is to make your dream come true and today when I am given a chance to express a technological innovation. I would say there should be an automatic button which when required should be switched on and makes the time stable.

Time runs faster than we can imagine. I need a stop on the time whenever I feel like. I need a button which stops the time whenever I feel like. There are times when we want to stop the time & enjoy the moment. There are times when we fear the future results and think why time can’t stop.

I want an innovation which makes the time move on when I want to. At least, I will be able to live the moments I always crave for.

Life shows us varied faces and few of them are those which we always strive for. So my technical desire is an automatic button which stops the time when I say and starts as I wish. Although I can very well understand that it would make life really boring (monotonous) when time would stop, but it’s always good to enjoy those moments more which makes you smile.

My wish is time what’s yours??

Our Fake Business That Risks Your Future

We all are very well aware of the increasing unemployment in our country.
With a rise in BPO's and KPO's in India lot of youth after class 12 or say graduation are diverging more towards pursuing call centre jobs just to earn money.
Lucrative Packages, incentives, timely bonus makes them go crazy for pursuing call centre jobs, rather than pursuing their career in some professional field. There starts the new story of jobs and its attraction to the students who are just higher secondary passed and how are they used for business!!!
Yes these students who get attracted towards the lucrative packages in the industry are caught in hands of all those consultants who are using them as a part of their business.

Well we might not think in our imagination that what’s going on..
To let their consultancy business run well these consultancies are providing fake certificates to students. Providing duplicate proofs that students are graduates and experienced.

Its just not fake certificates they provide to theses students more or less they are playing with there future. For a fresher who is undergraduate a sum of Rs. 10,000/- month is a huge amount where there monthly pocket money from there parents does not exceed more than Rs. 2,000/- per month.

Almost around 70% of employees (students) working in BPO’s are working with such fake certificates provided by consultancies. The question that arises here is what right do they have to play with the student’s future?

Rapid transition in job industry through the commencement of BPO’s had made a lot of change. Gradually students or professionals are more or less found in BPO’s pursuing jobs. Some of them are innocent who are there to earn there livelihood and many among them are those from theses consultancies just to pursue a job for 2 months or 3 months in lieu to earn good money.

The lucrative packages and incentives makes them earn more and attracted towards such jobs; but what is the professional stand these jobs are providing?
Too many questions have arisen but still there is no answer…
Where is this world leading towards …A vast destruction and full of corruption..With a crave for money people have got to be very selfish day by day.

What everyone sees from eyes is just money and different ways to earn that whether by getting a job by fake certificates or providing fake certificates to run there business well.

How high is the price of a paying guest & food outside home?

As admissions in Delhi University are on set again. There goes up the price of rented room accommodations. Think of staying as a paying guest; you are welcome to the world of problems at your end.

This is the time when rented rooms price goes up especially in the campus areas in Delhi. Where price of a bed varies from Rs. 2,000/- - Rs.6, 000/-. It is just a bed not bed and actually it is not even bed it is a place on the floor where u can make your bed.

It is a specially designed package for the students and office goers. If you pay for your bed you ought to pay for many other things. Here goes the rise in budget.

In this multi thought package everyone in the campus area is included right from landlord, tiffin service, grocery store and many other stores.

‘Kabhi chote thai toh mummy kehti thi beta bache ho dukandar thag lega’. Seems a dream has come to reality. These shopkeepers and our dear Mr. Landlord is no less in squeezing money from your pockets. But all your good luck you have to welcome the high the pack of problems and load of money.

But no compromises to our studies & fun in life. Still manages to smile and enjoy life. To adding on to your pains there are some special people landed on from Bihar region. To be correct almost 90% of the campus areas are filled with our dear Bihari’s who have come to Delhi with a high aim of becoming an IAS officer.

If I am not wrong if 60 % of Bihar turns out to be IAS officers then I think the literacy rate of Bihar will rise drastically. And this would be the real end to the problems of LALU ji and Rabri Ji. But why are we talking about them leave them off; one will go mad talking about them. But actually to an extent these are the right people to tackle with our Mr. Landlord who creates loads of problems for us.

Well our problem package is a very exciting package; with scarcity of water in your PG and not anywhere else and especially at your most hard working & enjoyable days. How can you forget stupid people! You are here to work not to enjoy and relax. So get going and start your work on Saturday –Sunday too.

Delhi being a metropolitan does not leave its residents without water for too long but we do at every weekend. Does anyone know the answer? Yes I do because our dear MR. Landlord takes the motor plug off and say there is no water. And you relax and take a chill pill now.

But what does he think that will be the end a big NO. We are clever people we go on terrace and get water from their water tank. Gud na..Well but now he has got aware about this and he has locked his water tank..

Very bad people in Delhi they need to lock up their water tanks on terrace. ‘Arey chor tanki utha kar nahin le gate hain…’

Poor people have no other choice apart from getting up early on weekends too.

With a complete package there goes the water problem, electricity bill problem, and not to forget the cleanliness and fooding problem.

Many of us think getting Tiffin for fooding is a very good option. In hindi we call it as ‘sasta sundar tikau’ but in English we will say that tiffin is merely hopeless. Is that really called as food, I don’t think so. I go mad seeing that food where rice are raw and chapattis are dry and not to forget the hot boiling water dal and mast mix veg.

Amazing delicious food; which is not even liked by our street dogs? Let’s go away my favorite Tiffin service with beautiful cockroaches.

One should be very dutiful to their landlord when it comes to their work. When they use electricity as a paying guest you should divide the total electricity bill into each one and pay to relive off their burden. ‘Big thieves.’

If we take into account our verty own Mr. landlord is earning a handsome sum of money about more than 20,000/month from the rent of a small bed place of 14 girls. And to his privilege we are there to pay an electricity bill of Rs. 400/month for 1 cooler in summers and Rs.500/moth for 1 heater in winters. Great going and great earnings.

Wonderful business na..

I think in future I should buy a house and put it up on rent. A handsome earning. Maintenance bhi free hai.

Badiya hai.

Chalo abhi no more to accommodation lets go and think how to work out with our plan.