Why do people with Good Comfort level always leave...

Why do people I am comfortable always leave me behind at a struggling phase alone?

Time plays a big game no doubt!

When we think eveything is smooth and people around you are compatable enough to work with you and guide you well, lead you to a better way. Why does there comes a break in that moving life.....

There are many facets of life which can never be counted back or recognized. You never realize and get to know what is going on and when a shock will be given to you.

When you realize there are some people in your life who are really important and plays a real role to make you uplift towards your life.

Why at that stage of life they leave you behind to struggle and bear the strong winds of storm.........

Sometimes even words fall short to describe such situation...........


But still looking for an answer how this happens....

Is Moral Policing right?

Moral Policing

Moral Policing is infringement of fundamental rights of a human being it’s policing of being human & enjoying the not so popular beliefs.

Is there a place for Moral Policing in plural democracy?

“Moral Policing is suppressing of individuals liberty in the name of protecting the individuals.”

It all started from the ban on TV channels like AXN and F T.V. in the name of vulgarity. It is always justified on the grounds of protecting women.

On another aspect it was justified by Imposing of dress code in colleges on women in Tamil Nadu. Students are asked to dress modestly to avoid eve teasing and sexual abuse. The answer to this was ‘Man is born with needs and he has no control on his actions. He will molest women if she is dressed in an inappropriate manner. A little show of skin is enough to make them commit sexual crime.’

It is no less than suppression on individual’s liberty and rights in the name of women protection.

And with an almost same logic behind Maharshtra government imposed a ban on bar dancing. Claiming bars have a corrupting influence on public morals. Government also tried to portray bar dancers as characterless girls.

India is a democratic country and everyone has a right to earn his/her living or live the way he/she likes too. Also, closing dance bars will not stop people going to these places or stop seeing the vulgarity. Probably, we Indians find a way towards every problem; they would rather find a way which is hidden to everyone. Government on the other hand is forcing people to go in wrong directions. Government overlooks many of these facts just in the namesake of protecting public morals.

This is just not less; our rights are infringed a lot at several other places too. Our rights are infringed in the name of moral influence that is what happened in Meerut too. Police assaulted young couples for meeting in public parks. It was named as ‘Operation Majnu’. It was all done in the presence of media. It is always named as the western influence.

Is it a true fact?

It is worthless to talk about the morals imposed by our government. For them even love is something exposed from western culture. That was the reason moral policing was done on Valentine’s Day in Mumbai as well as Meerut. On the notes of religion and morality these selfless acts are done.

Today, an individual liberty is seen as influenced by the western culture. And to an extent there is a serious threat to the individual as a character. It is the time to fire the self appointed police men and embrace freedom.

Moral Policing ends up just in the name of protecting our culture. But, I feel that there is nothing immoral if a man wants to meet a woman in a public place until & unless there is anything wrong going on in between them. (Like kissing each other in park)

There is nothing wrong if a girl wears a skirt or jeans top by her wish. It’s her wish and life. Why she is bounded into the knots of moral policing. It is just the way how she carries her dress. Even a suit or a saree, if not carried on a proper way turns to be appealing or in other word vulgar (in consideration to moral policing).

We live in a democratic government and we do have rights to live according to our wishes and way. Government cannot impose unnecessary restrictions on individual’s liberty just in the name of morality & culture.

Moral Policing today to an extent is an infringement of our personal rights.

Why writers have attitude in them?

Writers by name is a big name and on the second thoughts they get good fame too.

But the only problem that I have seen in writers is big ATTITUDE problem in them.

Although Attitude is a small word but it itself possess lot of problems or is a big by meaning and practicality.

No doubt writing is no less than any other profession it also tackles creativity and require a lot of patience. I am myslef a writer by profession but not a typical hindi movie book writer or author. I work as a content writer but still I can counter that there is loads of attitude in professionally settled writers. (They will never look at you as if the most busiest personalities in this world like George Bush)

It's not that I am criticizing them just because I am a fresher and they are seniors. No, but it is a hard faced reality that writers generally serve with an attitude problem. Writing is a real expression of words and who master this expression he/she is a real gem.

Writing as a profession is gaining a lot of importance today. It is very helpful in businesses today. Writing can make a business rise high or fall. Today, it is the profession which with expression takes one to heights. But it really does not demand attitude.

No Attitude.....

People generally say those writers who have attitude their always depicts an attitude or persuasion in their writing too. But I think that Attitude is not important to make persuausive words a part of your copy it is just the inner strength and creativity which helps to make the copy or text persuausive.

Words really change the meaning of minutest things. It is a creativity which makes world go round but it really doesn't demand attitude. Where attitude comes in expression of words?

I am really confused about this....

In my opnion writers should not have attitude rather they should be adjustable to all circumstances to understand the various facets of life and express them in words with the utmost creative talent that they have in them.

So, that was my opinion what is yours?............

Words fall short.....

There are times in life when words do fall short !

Words are the perfect means of communication. A communication of expression and feelings. Words are very powerful...

But still there are times in your life when words really fall short. Times, when one wants to say a lot but is not able to just because of some reasons. There comes a time when silence speaks. Yes, I am right silence do speaks but it really needs an understanding. The understanding that can be done by your dear ones and near ones.

As a writer I can really say words matter a lot. Words are no less than a tactic or a strategy; which can turn and twist your life in just a few seconds. Words have a lot of power and strength. The strength that can shake down the world. But still words do fall short sometimes....

Some times there are occassions when you want to say, but you are in a dilemma that; 'Whether I should speak or not or Is it the right time to say?'

Few moments, few occassions, few expressions makes silence comes its way. People generally say, 'Silence does not matter and has no power."

Mind you silence is no less powerful than words. Yes, I do agree that people take silence in a wrong direction coz it can only be understood by the ones who understands you by your heart.

Especially your Mom who is close to you.. Mom who knows what her child wants to say, or rather is not able to say..

There is just a need of perfect company or partner to understand the silence... It can be your Mom, Dad, Friend, Sister, Brother, Husband or Wife, whoever but it is always the dear ones who understands you the most.

But there are many among us, who hide themselves under there masti and jokes, that is another way of an unsaid silence..

It is the silence which needs a depth reading of mind and heart.

The silence which can be understood from deep down your hearts and expressed. Few words and thoughts does not need an expression they are understood on their own.

Silence speaks and speaks a lot but words fall short too....
Just a need to understand those words..
Those who really can understand these words are the luckier ones...
Are you among the luckier ones?